Ever tried to make a joke or tell a funny story and no one
laughs? It happens to all of us. What do
you do when no one laughs?
The simple answer is, you keep going. If you’re giving a
talk and your joke falls flat, don’t stop and question the audience and tell
them they have no sense of humour. Just keep going.
A while ago I did a gig at a retirement village. There was
no response to my funny stories from the audience members. I had a sinking and
queasy feeling in the pit of my stomach but I wanted to be professional so I kept
going till the end. I couldn’t wait to get off that stage.
After the show, several audience members came up to me and
said.
‘We loved your show. It was so funny.’
Huh, I wondered. Why didn’t they laugh?
I decided to ask them.
‘Why wasn’t anyone laughing?’
‘Oh, we smile on the inside, dear’ said a lovely lady with
permed hair, a blue handbag and a matching dress.
That was a relief to know. People may not laugh for several
reasons. They may laugh on the inside like this group, they may be having a bad
day or they may not find your material funny. Don’t let it stop you trying
again. Being funny needs practice. Whether it’s telling a funny story to your
friends or giving a humorous talk, keep trying out your material till you get
more people laughing.
1 comment:
Very good point and good lesson. I'll remember this story the next time I'm in a situation like that, thanks.
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